Sunday, October 31, 2010

Your Astro Sign

Which baby are you?

These are adorable and I'll bet they fit your b-day/personality ......... ......





------------ ---JANUARY BABY-------- --------- ---
Pretty/handsome. Loves to dress up. Easily bored.
Fussy. Seldom shows emotions. Takes time to
Recover when hurt. Sensitive. Down-to-Earth.
Stubborn.


----------FEBRUARY BABY ------------ --------
Abstract thoughts. Loves reality and abstract.
Intelligent and clever. Changing personality.
Attractive. Sexiest out of everyone.
Temperamental. Quiet, shy and humble. Honest
And loyal. Determined to reach goals. Loves
Freedom. Rebellious when restricted. Loves Aggressiveness. Too sensitive and easily hurt.
Gets angry really easily but does not show it.
Dislikes unnecessary things. Loves making friends
But rarely shows it. Horny. Daring and stubborn.
Ambitious. Realizing dreams and hopes. Sharp.
Loves entertainment and leisure. Romantic on the Inside not outside. Superstitious and ludicrous.
Spendthrift. Tries to learn to show emotions.





------------ -----MARCH BABY ------------ --------
Attractive personality. Sexy. Affectionate Shy and Reserved. Secretive. Naturally honest, generous
And sympathetic. Loves peace and serenity.
Sensitive to others. Great kisser. Easily angered.
Trustworthy. Appreciative and returns kindness.
Hardly shows emotions. Tends to bottle up Feelings. Observant and assesses others.


------------ ------APRIL BABY ------------ -------
Suave and compromising. Funny and humorous.
Stubborn. Very talkative. Calm and cool. Kind and
Sympathetic. Concerned and detailed. Loyal. Does
Work well with others. Very confident. Sensitive.
Positive Attitude. Thinking generous. Good Memory. Clever and knowledgeable. Loves to look For information. Able to cheer everyone up and/or
Make them laugh. Able to motivate oneself and
Others. Understanding. Fun to be around.
Outgoing. Hyper. Bubbly personality. Secretive.
Boy/girl crazy. Loves sports, music, leisure and Traveling. Systematic. Hot but has brains.

------------ -----MAY BABY ------------ -----
Stubborn and hard-hearted. Strong-willed and Highly motivated. Sharp thoughts. Easily angered.
Attracts others and loves attention. Deep feelings.
Beautiful physically and mentally. Firm Standpoint.
Needs no motivation. Shy towards opposite sex.
Easily consoled. Systematic (left brain). Loves to Dream. Strong clairvoyance. Understanding.
Sickness usually in the ear and neck. Good Imagination. Good physical. Weak breathing. Loves
Literature and the arts. Loves traveling. Dislike
Being at home. Restless. Not having many children.
Hardworking. High spirited.


------------ JUNE BABY ------------ -
You've got the best personality and are an Absolute pleasure to be around. You love to make New friends and be outgoing. You are a great flirt
And more than likely have an a very attractive
Partner. A wicked hottie. It is also more than likely
That you have a massive record collection. You
Have a great choice in films, and may one day
Become a famous actor/actress yourself - heck,
You've got the looks for it!!!


------------ ----JULY BABY ------------ --
Fun to be with. Secretive. Difficult to fathom and to Be understood. Quiet unless excited or tensed.
Takes pride in oneself. Has reputation. Easily
Consoled. Honest. Concerned about people's Feelings. Tactful. Friendly. Approachable.
Emotional temperamental and unpredictable.
Easily hurt. Witty and sparkly.
Spazzy at times.
Not revengeful. Forgiving but never forgets.
Dislikes nonsensical and unnecessary things.
Guides others physically and mentally. Sensitive
And forms impressions carefully. Caring and Loving. Treats others equally. Strong sense of
Sympathy. Wary and sharp. Judges people
Through observations. Hardworking. No difficulties In studying. Loves to be with friends Always broods
About the past and the old friends. Waits for Friends. Never looks for friends. Not aggressive Unless provoked.
Loves to be loved. Easily hurt
But takes long to recover.

------------ AUGUST BABY ------------ ---
Outgoing personality. Takes risks. Feeds on attention. No self control. Kind hearted. self
confident. Loud and boisterous. VERY revengeful.
Easy to get along with and talk to. has an 'every
thing's peachy' attitude. Likes talking and singing.
Loves music. Daydreamer. Easily distracted. Hates
not being trusted. BIG imagination. Loves to be loved. Hates studying. In need of 'that someone'.
Longs for freedom. rebellious when withheld or
Restricted. Lives by 'no pain no gain' caring.
Always a suspect. Playful. Mysterious. 'Charming'
or 'beautiful' to everyone. Stubborn. Curious.
Independent. Strong willed. A fighter.


------------ SEPTEMBER BABY ------------ ---
Active and dynamic. Decisive and haste but tends
to regret. Attractive and affectionate to oneself.
Strong mentality. Loves attention. Diplomatic.
Consoling, friendly and solves people's problems.
Brave and fearless. Adventurous. Loving and
caring. Suave and generous. Usually you have
many friends. Enjoys making love. Emotional.
Stubborn. Hasty. Good memory. Moving, motivates
oneself and others. Loves to travel and explore.
Sometimes sexy in a way that only their lover can
understand.


------------ ---OCTOBER BABY ------------ -------
Loves to chat. Loves those who love them. Loves
to takes things at the centre. Inner and physical
beauty. Lies but doesn't pretend. Gets angry
often. Treats friends importantly. Brave and
fearless. Always making friends. Easily hurt but
recovers easily. Daydreamer. Opinionated. Does
not care to control emotions. Unpredictable.
Extremely smart, but definitely the hottest AND
sexiest of them all.


------------ ---NOVEMBER BABY ------------ --------
Trustworthy and loyal. Very passionate and
dangerous. Wild at times. Knows how to have fun.
Sexy and mysterious. Everyone is drawn towards
your inner and outer beauty and independent
personality. Playful, but secretive. Very emotional
and temperamental sometimes. Meets new people
easily and very social in a group. Fearless and
independent. Can hold their own. Stands out in a
crowd. Essentially very smart. Usually, the
greatest men are born in this month. If you ever
begin a relationship with someone from this month,
hold on to them because their one of a kind.



------------ ---DECEMBER BABY ------------ ---
This straight-up means your the most good-looking
person possible... better than all of these other
months! Loyal and generous. Patriotic. Competitive
in everything. Active in games and interactions.
Impatient and hasty. Ambitious. Influential in
organizations. Fun to be with. Easy to talk to,
though hard to understand. Thinks far with vision,
yet complicated to know. Easily influenced by
kindness. Polite and soft-spoken. Having lots of
ideas. Sensitive. Active mind. Hesitating, tends to
delay. Choosy and always wants the e best t.
Temperamental. Funny and humorous. Loves to
joke. Good debating skills. Has that someone
always on his/her mind. Talkative. Daydreamer.
Friendly. Knows how to make friends. Abiding.
Able to show character. One guy/girl kind of
person . Loveable. Easily hurt. Prone to getting
colds. loves music.

A story worth sharing

4 years ago, an accident took my beloved away and very often I wonder,

how does my wife, who is now in the heavenly realm, feel right now? She

must be feeling extremely sad for leaving a husband who is incapable to

taking care of the house and the kid. 'cos that is the exact feeling that

I have, as I feel that I have failed to provide for the physical and emotional

needs of my child, and failed to be the dad and mum for my child.





There was one particular day, when I had an emergency at work. Hence, I

had to leave home whilst my child was still sleeping. So thinking that

there was still rice leftovers, I hastily cooked an egg and left after

informing my sleepy child.





With the double roles, I am often exhausted at work as well as when I am

home. So after a long day, I came home, totally drained of all energy.

So with just a brief hug and kiss for my child, I went straight into the

room, skipping dinner. However, when I jumped into my bed with intention

of just having a well-deserved sleep, all i heard and felt was broken porcelain

and warm liquid! I flipped open my blanket, and there lies the source of

the 'problem'... a broken bowl with instant noodles and a mess on the bedsheet

and blanket!





Boy, was I mad! I was so furious that I took a clothes hanger, charged

straight at my child who was happily playing with his toy, and give him

a good spanking! He merely cried but not asking for mercy, except a short

explanation:





"Dad, I was hungry and there wasn't anymore leftover rice. But you

were not back yet, hence I wanted to cook some instant noodles. But I remembered

you reminding me not to touch or use the gas stove without any adults around,

hence I turned on the shower and used the hot water from the bathroom to

cook the noodles.. One is for you and the other is for me. However, I was

afraid that the noodles will turn cold, so I hid it under the blanket to

keep it warm till you return. But I forgot to remind you 'cos I was playing

with my toys...I am sorry Dad..."





At that moment, tears were starting to run down my cheeks...but I didn't

want my son to see his dad crying so I dashed into the bathroom and cried

with the shower head on to mask my cries. After that episode, I went towards

my son to give him a tight hug and applied medication on him, while coaxing

him to sleep. Then, it was time to clear up the mess on the bed. When everything

was done and well past midnight, I passed my son's room, and saw that he

was still crying, not from the pain on his little buttock, but from looking

at the photograph of his beloved mummy.





A year has passed since the episode, I have tried, in this period, to focus

on giving him both the love of his dad and mum, and to attend to most of

his needs. And soon, he is turning seven, and will be graduating from kindergarten..

Fortunately, the incident did not leave a lasting impression on his childhood

memories and he is still happily growing up.





However, not so long ago, I hit my boy again, with much regret. This time,

his kindergarten teacher called, informing me of my son's absence from

school. I took off early from work and went home, expecting him to explain.

But he wasn't to be found, so I went around our house, calling out his

name and eventually found him outside a stationery shop, happily playing

computer games. I was fuming, brought him home and whack the hell out of

him. He did not retaliate, except to say, 'I am sorry, Dad'. But after

much probing, I realized that it was a 'Talent Show' organized by his school

and the invite is for every student's mummy. And that was the reason for

his absence as he has no mummy.....





Few days after the caning, my son came home to tell me, the kindergarten

has recently taught him how to read and write. Since then, he has kept

to himself and stayed in his room to practise his writing, which I am sure,

would make my wife proud, if she was still around. 'cos he makes me proud

too!





Time passes by very quickly, and soon another year has passed. It's winter,

and its Christmas time. Everywhere the christmas spirit is in every passer-by...Christmas

carols and frantic shoppers....but alas, my son got into another trouble.

When I was about to knock off from the day's work, the post office called.

Due to the peak season, the post master was also on an edgy mood. He called

to tell me that my son has attempted to post several letters with no addressee.

Although I did make a promise never to hit my son again, I couldn't help

but to hit him as I feel that this child of mine is really beyond control.

Once again, as before, he apologized, ' I'm sorry, Dad' and no additional

reason to explain. I pushed him towards a corner, went to the post office

to collect the letters with no addressee and came home, and angrily questioned

my son on his prank, during this time of the year.





His answer, amidst his sobbing, was : The letters were for Mummy.





My eyes grew teary, but I tried to control my emotions and continued to

ask him: " But why did u post so many letters, at one time?"

My son's reply was: " I have been writing to mummy for a long time,

but each time I reach out for the post box, it was too high for me, hence

I was not able to post the letters. But recently, when I went back to the

postbox, I could reach it and I sent it all at once..."





After hearing this, I was lost. Lost at not knowing what to do, what to

say.....





I told my son, " Son, mummy is in the heavenly kingdom, so in future,

if you have anything to tell her, just burn the letter and it will reach

mummy. My son, on hearing this, was much pacified and calm, and soon after,

he was sleeping soundly. On promising that I will burn the letters on his

behalf, I brought the letters outside, but couldnt help opening the letter

before they turn to ash.





And one of the letters broke my heart....





Dear Mummy,





I miss you so much! Today, there was a 'Talent Show' in school, and

the school invited all mothers for the show. But you are not around, so

I did not want to participate as well. I did not tell Dad about it as I

was afraid that Dad would start to cry and miss you all over again. Dad

went around looking for me, but in order to hide my sadness, I sat in front

of the computer and started playing games at one of the shops. Dad was

furious, and he couldnt help it but scolded and hit me, but I did not tell

him the real reason. Mummy, everyday I see Dad missing you and whenever

he think of you, he is so sad and often hide and cry in his room.. I

think we both miss you very very much. Too much for our own good I think..

But Mummy, I am starting to forget your face. Can you please appear in

my dreams so that I can see your face and remember you? I heard that if

you fall asleep with the photograph of the person whom you miss, you will

see the person in your dreams. But mummy, why havent you appeared?








After reading the letter, I cant stop sobbing. 'cos I can never replace

the irreplaceable gap left behind by my wife....