Thursday, December 31, 2009

Happy New Year 2010


Another year, another chance
To start our lives anew;
This time we’ll leap old barriers
To have a real breakthrough.
We’ll take one little step
And then we’ll take one more,
Our unlimited potential
We’ll totally explore.
We’ll show off all our talents
Everyone will be inspired;
(Whew! While I’m writing this,
I’m getting very tired.)
We’ll give up all bad habits;

We’ll read and learn a lot,
All our goals will be accomplished,
Sigh...or maybe not.

"May each day of the coming year be vibrant and new bringing along many reasons for celebrations"


Happy New Year 2010

A Girls Sad Love Story...

I once heard a story straight from the heart
About a girl and how her world began to fall apart


It all started when she met the boy that made her life complete
Just thinking of him made her heart skip a beat


They were the couple everyone wanted to be
There were no imperfections as either one could see


As the weeks passed they fell more in love and were less aware
Of how often life turns out to be unfair


Until one day she finally gave in
She realized there was no way she could win
She said I'm sorry but i have to let you go


As he reached for her hand she pulled away whispering no
When she turned around a tear slid down her cheek


He just stood there speechless, forgetting how to speak
The next few days were the hardest at home


She truly felt she was all alone
Her mom pushed in her face how she had won
Her dad said "i knew he was just another one"


Her sister said "come on you'll be ok"
And her brother just tried to stay away


At school it was like her friends weren't even there
None of them seemed to really care


Her life had no more color, just black and white
Even getting out of bed turned into a fight


Despite their tries things just weren't like before
Then he decided "i don't wanna try anymore"


At that she tried to cut him out
But the more she ignored him the more her feelings began to shout


When she saw him that day she could no longer just walk by
And before she knew it her mouth opened up and out came "hi"


He looked up and said "so now we're talking?"
She just smiled and join his walking


Everyday they talked a little more
And everyday she began to like him a little less then before


As the months passed by she became more and more aware
About how its ok life's unfair
Because eventually everything becomes your past


But your memories will always last
And with that i hope you see
Not all love is meant to be
But hold on and don't give in

""Stand tall, hold up your chin
And believe me when i say
The right one will come one day
He'll open your eyes to things you couldn't ever see""

How To Be Happy...

Step 1:
Smile. Smile even if life isn’t good, smile because life can be good. Smile because of the possibilities and everything that’s going to be.

Step 2:
Find a way to destroy whatever (not whoever) destroys you. No matter how long it takes. No matter how hard it is. Make it go away.

Step 3:
Get yourself a passion. Something (not someone), a hobby you can live for.

Step 4:
Love yourself. I know it’s hard, but you have to find a way, or you will never know how good life can be.

Step 5:
Stop thinking. What others think is not relevant, if it makes you unhappy. Enjoy. Concentrate on what you’re doing. Decide by feeling: If you feel like something’s the right thing to do, just do it.


So Be Happy Alwaz
n
Keep Smiling...

Sunday, December 13, 2009

How to play .swf files on your Desktop ?


Many a times you may get Flash files(with file extension .swf) from friends as e-mail forwards or you may have downloaded it off from websites online. But how do you play the .swf files in your desktop?

Here's how you can do it. Well, you have two options to play flash files off your desktop.

* Open the file within your web-browser. Simple - Drag and drop the .swf file into Internet Explorer or Firefox and it'll play.

* The other way is to play your flash files using the Adobe Standalone Flash Player.
For this you will first need to Download the Windows Flash Player 9 Projector content debugger from the Adobe Site [Freeware].
There is NO installation needed. Just open the downloaded .exe and open your .swf from within the Projector.
In order to associate all .swf files to open using the Projector, right click the .swf file and "Open with" option. Once there, choose the location of your Projector.exe and you are done.

Hope this information was useful.

Monday, December 7, 2009

The 9 Rules of Resume Design

Compose your resume on a blank piece of paper and then use the template as a guide to replicate the overall layout.

Follow these 9 free resume design rules

1. Keep it to a maximum of two pages.

2. Use one inch margins all the way around the page

3. Always use left justification

4. Font and size should remain consistent

5. Use the basic bullet point indicators like circles and squares.

6. If you want to you can use all caps in your headlines otherwise all text to remain with default formatting

7. Do not underline any information as this implies an active web link when uploaded to search engine web sites

8. Use a maximum of 14 point font size for headings and 12 point for normal text.

9. Make use of the tab key when creating spaces between the text.

To double check, email it to friends and family asking them to report anything outside of the ordinary. Make a point of printing it out on paper to see that all the margins are correctly set and your content is not crowded.

Once you are happy with with it, proof it one more time for typos, misspellings and errors before submitting it. Now take a breather and stay within arms reach of your phone...

Al D best...

Top 10 tips for producing a better CV

Think of your CV as your shop window - it must effectively display your experience, skills and qualities in a very short period of time. The following tips will help you produce a CV that does just that.

1. Keep it short and clear

Before you start, choose the right structure for your CV. The most important information, such as your key skills and recent experience, needs to be near the top, where it can be seen straightaway. Sections you usually need to include are your Profile, Achievements, Experience, Special Skills (languages / computers), Education, Training, and (if you wish) Interests. Your CV should normally be two pages in length (unless you have a very long career or you are a contractor or the recruiter asks for a longer CV). If you haven't caught the recruiter's interest by page two then they probably won't read any further pages anyway.

2. Make it look good

Clear, attractive presentation is also important if your CV is to stand out. Ensure that it's uncluttered, with key points easy to spot. Use bullet points and keep the sentences relatively short. Plenty of 'white space' around the borders and between each section keeps the document easier on the eye.

3. Most recent first

Put your employment history in date order, starting with the most recent first. Avoid leaving any gaps, so if you've had time out for some reason, do mention this. Don't go into detail about positions you held over 10 years ago. Include details of holiday or temporary work only if it's relevant to the job you're applying for.

4. Include many facts

List your job duties beneath each position. List your achievements, responsibilities and results. Talk about results - what difference did your presence make? Use numbers for achievements wherever possible, e.g. "Boosted sales by 20% in first year". And always write in a slightly formal manner and never use the word "I" - e.g. "Supervised the team" rather than "I supervised the team". Use the past tense for previous jobs and the present tense for your current job.

5. Not too many lists

Include specific skills, such as languages, administrative or computing skills, in a separate section in your CV. Don't relist them for every job you've used them in. This is particularly so for IT work - lists of tools and packages make dull reading and won't make you stand out from other people with the same abilities.

6. Breath some life into it

Remember the employer wants a sense of the kind of person you are, as well as what you can do. Are you punctual, conscientious, or motivated? Do you rise to a challenge? With each point you write, ask yourself "What does this say about me?"

7. Be accurate

Always check for errors. Run a spelling and grammar check and ask someone else to read it for you. Read it aloud to the dog. The employer isn't going to believe you're a good communicator if your CV is full of mistakes.

8. Adapt it

You don't have to use the same CV every time. You can have two or three versions, each for a different kind of job. Or you can tailor your CV to suit the job you're applying for. It isn't a case of one size fits all.

9. Send a covering letter

Unless the advert tells you not to, always send a covering letter. This should highlight the two or three areas of experience from your CV that are most relevant to the advertised job. Never send your CV out on its own.

10. Be truthful

Although you obviously want to present yourself well, don't go too far and embellish the truth. It can easily backfire on you.

Ten Things to Leave out of your CV

1. Photos

The only people who need to include photos in their CVs are models and performers.

2. Any sort of failure

This covers exams, marriages, businesses, etc.

3. Every vacation and Saturday job you've ever had

Some of these may be relevant while you're looking for your first job, but after that they're meaningless. This doesn't apply to solid work experience breaks.

4. The words 'I', 'he' or 'she'

Your CV should normally be written in the first person ('I'), but you never actually need to write 'I' in a CV. Some people used to write their CV in the third person ('he' or 'she'). Again, you don't need to include the 'he' or 'she'.

5. References

These needn't be mentioned in your CV. Don't include names, addresses, emails and phone numbers. The phrase "References are available upon request" should be left out too.

6. Reasons for leaving each job

These are often negative points and leave you open to being misunderstood.

7. List of all your schools

This isn't necessary or of any interest to the employer. But do include your most recent educational establishment.

8. Salary information

This can only be used to reject your application. If an advertisement specifically requests this information, you can always include it in your cover letter.

9. Patterns, borders and graphics

These give your CV a cluttered appearance. Besides, what you think is tasteful may not be to the liking of the employer.

10. Binders and folders

These will often be discarded straight away, as your CV will be photocopied, scanned, faxed, etc.

Ten more things to leave out of your CV

1. Lists of publications

If you're a scientist or academic, include these only if they are asked for. However, significant publications may be included as achievements.

2. Very personal information

Don't include your age (although your date of birth is OK), weight, height, health, sex, race or marital status. It's irrelevant and some facts could be used in a discriminatory way.

3. Jargon and abbreviations

Avoid using any information that won't be understood by someone outside your job or organisation. The exceptions to this are abbreviations recognised industry-wide.

4. Poor photocopies

Always use good original laser prints. Poor quality copies suggest you're sending the CV out to lots of companies because you're desperate.

5. Mistakes and typos

Always check your CV for incorrect spellings and factual errors. Then check it again. Then ask someone else to check it. Errors make you look careless and disorganised.

6. Excessive wordiness

This is a working document, so keep it factual and don't go over the top with conversational descriptions.

7. Negatives

Don't be apologetic over what you believe may be missing from your CV. Focus on your positive attributes.

8. Irrelevancies

Don't include your gap year travel history, previous managers' names, the middle name that you never use, etc.

9. Cheap paper

If you post a printed copy of your CV or you take a copy of your CV to an interview make sure your CV is printed on good quality paper. This will make your application stand out and it costs very little to buy quality paper.

10. Exaggerations

Stick to the truth. You never know when misleading statements might backfire.

Saturday, December 5, 2009

How to write a winning resume ???

Where to start? Winning resume strategies vary dramatically depending on the job seeker’s background, career level, goals, even geographic location. It would be impossible to give the recipe for a winning resume and wrap it in a pretty bow. But I like a challenge, so I decided to break it up into a list of do’s and don’ts. So here goes…

Do’s

• Do state your career goal. Your objective should be clear from the very beginning of your resume. You can incorporate your goal into a bold headline, or weave it into your Qualifications Summary. Thinking about using a “one-size-fits-all-jobs” resume? You could be in for a long job search.

• Do include a Qualifications Summary. If you’re diving right in to your work history without a brief introduction, you’re missing the opportunity to spoon-feed your strongest credentials or “value proposition” to the resume reviewer — right at the top of your resume.

• Do include your important skills. Hiring managers are looking for specific skills when filling a job opening. So create a bulleted list of your industry-related skills. Relevant job-related skills (such as “vendor negotiations”) hold more weight than general skills (like “communication skills,” which everyone claims to have).

• Do include accomplishments. Most resumes are heavily focused on job duties, but employers want to see how well you’ve done your job. Include specific examples of the main ways you contributed to your employers, and hiring managers will see the value that you bring to the table. Use quantifiable accomplishments whenever possible.

• Do pick the right length. If you’re a new grad with minimal experience, chances are you need one page. If you are an experienced professional with lots of experience, two pages should do the trick. If you’re a top-level executive with an extensive track record or a techie with many relevant projects, you might need three pages. Professionals who require a longer resume are in academia and need a CV, not a resume. A resume is a brief “snapshot” of your qualifications — you want to have something to discuss in an interview.

• Do create an attractive design. Your resume needs to stand out from the pack of resumes, and a distinctive (yet conservative) design can help your resume get noticed. Make use of your word processing program’s formatting features, like font size, bold, italics, etc. But don’t overdo it –- it’s a careful balancing act to make sure your resume looks nice, and not like a three-ring circus!

• Do give kudos to team accomplishments. Did your department generate $2.5 million last year? Then give credit to the team instead of claiming the accomplishment as your own, unless you want to look like a braggart who likes to steal the limelight.

• Do use a readable font size. I’ve been seeing more and more resumes with teeny tiny fonts — apparently people are trying to squeeze in as much information on a page to avoid starting a new page. Not good. Your font should be easily readable on-screen. It’s better to go to a new page or edit some of the content and use a font that doesn’t make your reader squint (or just delete your resume to avoid a migraine headache). Along the same lines, make sure you have plenty of white space to make your resume reader-friendly.

• Do include related hobbies. The emphasis is on related. If your hobby shows some aspect of your personality that would be desirable or an interesting talking point with the interviewer, include it. Avoid including anything that is kind of “out there” or would reveal something about you that you wouldn’t want your next employer to know.

• Do proofread. Your resume should be error-free. Sending a resume with typos is the equivalent of showing up to a job interview with food stains on your shirt.

• Do keep your resume updated. A resume that’s frequently updated and revised is more effective than one that is out-of-date and neglected. Make a point to update your resume when you have a new accomplishment, and take a good look at the document at least every few months.

Don’ts

• Don’t use a functional format. It’s almost never the right answer, and only raises red flags and doubts about your work history. Plus, if you’re trying to hide dates, a functional resume may do the opposite and draw attention to dates. A “combination” resume (a reverse chronological resume that leads with a Qualifications Summary) works for almost all professionals.

• Don’t be a copycat. Don’t use a resume template (unless you want to blend in with the crowd) and don’t copy your friend’s resume. You can use resume samples to inspire you, but don’t copy!

• Don’t lose sight of your career goal. When writing your work descriptions, always keep your career goal in mind. Highlight the accomplishments that are related to your next career move, and downplay unrelated career information. Remember, you can’t include everything you’ve ever done, so you might as well include the skills and accomplishments that will grab your reader’s attention.

• Don’t overuse bullets. Professional resume writers refer to this type of resume as a “polka-dot resume.” If you bullet everything, no one point stands out and you dilute the impact of the bullets. Instead, strategically use bullets to draw attention to the key points that you want to emphasize.

• Don’t go way back. If your work history spans more than fifteen years, keep in mind that employers are most interested in what you did recently. So dedicate the most space to your recent experience. You can include earlier work history if you want, but consider summing up the highlights in an “Early Career” section.

• Don’t use a funky font. Most resumes are being emailed and opened on computers, so it’s important that your font selection translates properly on the receiver’s end. If not, the receiver’s system will convert to a different font, and there goes all of your perfect formatting.

• Don’t write “References Available Upon Request.” This is not the 80s, folks!

• Don’t include personal information. Marital status, date of birth, salary data, and other personal information shouldn’t be included on most resumes. There are a few exceptions, like resumes going to foreign countries and entertainer resumes in which personal information is relevant to the job. Federal applications also require personal information such as salary history. Other than that, omit personal information.

• Don’t use personal pronouns (“I,” “me,” or “my”). The reader knows you are writing about you. Use an “implied” first-person voice, like “Developed reports…” instead of “I developed reports.”

• Don’t use bad resume lingo. If you’re a “results-proven leader with excellent communication skills looking for a growth-oriented position with a forward-thinking company,” please delete the bad resume lingo right now! This post has more detail on offensive, over-used cliches that should be eliminated from your resume.

• Don’t lie. Whatever you are trying to cover up isn’t as bad as you think it is, and a dishonest approach can get you into all kinds of trouble (even long after you’re hired). And yes, omitting significant jobs is lying. “Honesty is the best policy” — didn’t we learn this lesson in kindergarten?

To your success!


Thanx
All D Best...

Seven First-Time Resume Concerns

When you're a college student or recent grad and trying to write a resume, especially your first one, you'll face questions you typically won't find addressed in the current blizzard of resume books. That doesn't mean your questions aren't valid; it simply means the resume experts often overlook them, because they generally target mid-career audiences.

The following resume-related questions. It's time for some answers.

1. Should My Resume Be One Page or Two?
If you read enough books or talk to enough people who "know" about resumes, you'll come across a rule stating your resume should be only one page long. It's time to let this myth go, along with the resume handcuffing it spawns.
It's great if you can do this. But if you end up leaving out so much good material that you destroy your interview chances, what good have you done?
Remember: A human will read your resume. Some readers demand your resume be one page. Others will read a two-pager without hesitation. You don't know who's who, but the point still remains –- a one-page rule simply doesn't exist.

2. Should the Education Section Go First or Last?
In most cases, it makes sense to put the Education section at the beginning of your resume, since you're a college student or recent grad. But if you've got a lot of great internship, co-op or work experience closely related to your chosen field, position your Experience section ahead of Education.
Here's another resume area where there's no rule: Put it where it makes the most sense for you and your particular skills and experiences.

3. Should I Include My GPA on My Resume?
Yes -- if it's above a 3.0 (on a 4.0 scale). If not, try to make it look better by highlighting your major GPA instead of your cumulative one or calculating your GPA for the last three or four semesters, for example.

4. Should I List My School Address, Permanent Address or Both?
If in doubt, list both -- as long as you can actually be reached at both. If not, use the address where an employer will actually be able to reach you for the next few months.

5. What Can I Put on My Resume If I Don't Have Much Experience?
For starters, don't overlook or ignore the skills you've gained from jobs you've taken simply to get through school. You've also gained valuable experience from:
• Your foreign-language study.
• Alternative learning experiences, like studying abroad or conducting research.
• Your computer and Internet use.
• Extracurricular activities.

6. Should My Resume Include Only Paid Experience?
Employers are interested in your skills, not whether or not you've been paid to learn them. So don't hesitate to highlight nonpaying work and volunteer experiences if they've given you bragging rights.

7. Should I Include Precollege Information on My Resume?
Generally, no -- employers aren't likely to care about it much. There are exceptions, of course. Suppose you won a national award in high school, or you accomplished something extraordinary. Then you should highlight it, especially if it's connected to your chosen field.

Remember: Resume writing is much more art than science, so just as you would with an art project, express yourself the way that works best for you and the information you're trying to portray.

What's Your Objective?

The first step to creating a high-impact resume is determining what you're trying to accomplish. With a clearly defined career objective, you can write a resume that conveys the experience, skills and training that best serve your overall professional aspirations.

Hiring managers are busy folks who can't afford to waste any time trying to figure out what your career goals are. They won't take the time to do this; they'll just move on to the next resume.

Do You Need an Objective Section?
While it's important for your resume to include a clear career goal, you don't have to convey it through an Objective section. The majority of job seekers may incorporate their career goals into a Qualifications Summary instead.
For example, a candidate led her qualifications summary as follows:
Talented and dependable secretary, skilled in all aspects of office management within nonprofit environments.

Her summary continued to relay her key qualifications for an administrative position, but her introductory line enabled hiring managers to immediately recognize her goal. If you are on a steady career track, incorporating your objective into a summary sends the message "this is who I am," rather than "this is who I'd like to be when I grow up."

When you build your resume on Monster, you can use the Objective field to present your qualifications summary.

When Is a Formal Objective Required?
Career changers and entry-level workers should consider incorporating their objectives into their resumes, because their goals may not be clearly defined by their work history alone. If you're targeting a particular position, add a formal objective statement and reference the job opening. The hiring manager will see you took time to customize your resume and that the opportunity is important to you.

Sample Objectives
For Career Changers: Accomplished administrator seeking to leverage extensive background in personnel management, recruitment, employee relations and benefits administration in an entry-level human resources position. Extremely motivated for career change goal and eager to contribute to a company's HR division.

Entry-Level Workers: Dedicated CIS graduate pursuing a helpdesk-support position.
When Targeting a Specific Position: Elementary teacher for ABC School District.

Tips for Writing Your Own Objective Statement
• Focus on how you would benefit the employer, not on how the employer would benefit you. Stay away from objectives that state your working preferences, such as "seeking a team-oriented environment that fosters professional development."
• Don't be vague. Steer clear from statements that say nothing substantial about your career goal (e.g., "seeking a challenging position with potential for growth and advancement").
• Keep it concise and targeted. Hiring managers often sort through hundreds to thousands of resumes to fill one job opening. Make it easy on them by keeping your objective short and to the point. The best objectives contain a desired job title or target.

Thanx
All D Best

Customize Your Resume for Best Results

You have a resume, but it's not working as well as you'd like it to. What can you do to increase the number of calls you receive for job interviews?

Customize your resume.

Submitting the same resume for every position can't possibly meet each employer's individual requirements. If you want to grab hiring managers' attention, you need to give them what they want. You must take the time to tailor your resume to each employer and its goals to strengthen your chance of getting noticed.

Before responding to a job posting, review the job description to see what credentials are important. If you're submitting your resume to an employer that doesn't have an advertised opening, research the company and find out how it would benefit from bringing you on board. Once you determine your top-selling qualifications, you will be ready to customize your resume to meet the employer's needs.

The most efficient way to create customized resumes is to develop one general resume and then tweak it for each particular job opportunity. Follow these steps:

Duplicate Your Monster Resume

Before you apply for your next job on Monster, log into your My Monster account. Go to My Resumes, and find the resume you'd like to copy. Click on Duplicate below the resume's title. A copy of your resume will appear at the bottom of the resume listings, ready to customize specifically for the job you're applying for.

Title

Your Monster resume title should state your career goal, along with one or two of your top credentials. These credentials should be tailored to the employer's needs. For example: "Sous Chef - Culinary Degree & 5 Years' Fine Dining Experience."

Objective

The purpose of this section is to show that you're perfectly suited for the open position. Opt for a concise, targeted statement instead of a general objective that could be for any employer or job. An Objective like, "To become a software engineer for 123 Company's Web services group," makes the hiring manager's job much easier and brings you closer to getting called for the interview.

Qualifications Summary

Once you've researched the employer's requirements, use the summary section to match these requirements with your qualifications, thereby proving you are the perfect candidate for the position. Modify the Qualifications Summary in your duplicate resume as follows: omit statements that aren't important for the position's specific goals, reorder the summary so statements relevant to the position are listed first and add information about your credentials that's uniquely applicable to the position and employer.

Job Descriptions

Many employers go directly to the Employment History section to assess your qualifications. Review your job descriptions and modify your duties and accomplishments to pertain to the opening. Present an honest account of your employment history, but describe your experience to highlight your work tasks and achievements that relate to the job you're applying for. Place these pertinent qualifications at the top of the description, or use bullets surrounded by white space to make them stand out.

Skills

You've already reviewed the job posting and determined what skills the employer wants in an ideal candidate. Emphasize your matching skills in your Monster resume's Skills section. Begin your list with the skills that would be of most interest to the employer.

Thanx
All D best

Whatz Ur Rashee...

Call centre executive Nisha Singh recently dumped her boyfriend because of a book she read.

We do not know how her now former boyfriend feels about that book, but Singh swears by it. Though she does admit that she did hope, when she first met the man who was to become her (now former) boyfriend, that the book was wrong.

"I am a Gemini and he was a Taurean," says Singh. "I'd read that these two zodiac signs are incompatible, but I hoped it was wrong. Well, it wasn't. We just didn't get along. So next time I think I'll trust the book, not my instincts." The book Singh is referring to is Linda Goodman's Love Signs. "I knew we weren't compatible signs after I read the book," says Singh.

"But I didn't see any harm in giving the relationship a try. And we just couldn't get along. He thought I was too frivolous and I felt he was too stubborn. We called it quits after dating each other for a year."

Take a look -

Like Singh, there are a lot of people who believe that zodiac signs have a lot of relevance to their loves and lives.

So what is it with these signs and why do they fascinate people so much? It's hard to explain, says astrologer Rishikant Menon. But the answer lies in the question itself - it's a strange sort of fascination. "After all, isn't it uncanny that people born under the same sign generally show similar traits?" he asks.

"That is what makes these signs so interesting. While it isn't true that two people born under a particular sign are clones of each other, there generally are similarities between them."

This is something that has been and will be debated endlessly, but for a lot of people, zodiac signs are things to be taken at least semi-seriously.

While some of us at least begin our assessment of other people on the grounds that their zodiac sign indicates their possible personality, others read their daily and / or weekly horoscopes for one purpose only: to try and learn what is likely to happen to them today / this week.

"I hope to know what's in store for me on a daily basis, which is why I read my horoscope in the papers," says lawyer Arpit Mehra. "I got hooked because often, the predictions do come true. But that's about it. I don't really base my relationships with people on their zodiac signs."

- Written in the skies

It's true that predictions do hold a lot of importance for people who would scorn 'this sort of superstition' in myriad other ways.

But the belief that zodiac signs hold at least some clues to personality is quite strong in many people's minds. Which is when interpersonal relationships can get a bit fraught.

"Capricorns and Aquarians are people I wouldn't want to hang out with," announces accessory designer Vishal Mehta.

"I don't say all of them are bad, but personally I have never ever come across a single person from these two signs who I have been comfortable with. Though I don't begin my acquaintanceship by asking people their signs, I have realised that all the people I have had differences with, with very few exceptions, have been from either of these two signs.

So now I stay away from them unless I have to do otherwise. But I get along well with Cancerians, Geminis and Librans. I like being with them." Once again, it's not easy to explain why such an attitude exists, but for most people, thinking in stereotypes makes life much easier to cope with on a day-to-day basis.

"We read a lot of these things and believe in them if even one of five factors holds true," says psychologist Arvind Thakur. "It is human nature. Cynics dismiss a lot of things as mere coincidences - which they probably are - but most of us will believe in them.

Also, if we do not like a particular trait, the human mind tends to associate that trait with a particular kind of person or character. In this case, the associations happen with zodiac signs. So when we do or do not like a particular personality type, we categorise the person according to his or her zodiac sign, and react accordingly."

See no evil but it doesn't get more serious than that. Or at least, it shouldn't. Most people who read their horoscopes, or try and figure out personalities according to sign signs, claim they only do it for fun. "I loved reading Linda Goodman's Sun Signs and Love Signs in college," says journalist Parul Tiwari.

"We would check out our compatibility quotients with the boys we had crushes on. It was great fun, plus we got a broad idea of what the person would - or should - be like, and behaved accordingly." But that's no more than a starting point, adds Tiwari. In a committed relationship, zodiac signs matter not at all.

"I am a Gemini married to a Scorpion," she says. "Going by the sun signs, we shouldn't get along at all. But we gel brilliantly. We dated for a long time, married, and remain great friends. So though I read the weekly sun sign predictions for both of us, I don't take them too seriously." Which is how it should be, says psychiatrist Dr Anurag Khanna.

"It's okay to know about zodiac signs, but to make decisions based on them is a bit much. Every person has a distinct personality, and for any long term alliance, clicking with that personality is what matters."

Sign in -

Aries (Mar 21 - Apr 20) You're lively, energetic and daring, and a fighter too. You crave adventure, and love to travel the world. You're a pioneer, and have the ability to lead.

Taurus (Apr 21 - May 21) Cautious, practical and purposeful. Once your mind is made up, you have amazing persistence and follow through, plus tons of energy.

Gemini (May 22 - June 21) Gemini is about intelligence and communication. So you have a talent for and a love of using your mind.

Cancer (June 22 - July 23) Cancer is a water sign, which signifies your highly emotional nature. But it also makes you caring, generous and intuitive.

Leo (July 24 - Aug 23) You are warm, bright and self-motivated, and you want to make an impression everywhere. But you also have a need for one-upmanship.

Virgo (Aug 24 - Sep 23) You are known for your perfectionism and highly analytical mind. You are extremely fastidious and also critical of the world.

Libra (Sep 24 - Oct 23) Your love of communication makes you an excellent mediator and negotiator. But you also want to please people, which makes you unreliable.

Scorpio (Oct 24 - Nov 22) Magnetic, elusive, sexy and determined, that's you! You're an emotional being, and you take it to the limit. You can also be vengeful at times.

Sagittarius (Nov 23 - Dec 22) You are jovial and confident in whatever you do. Fortune seems to favour you. But you need to learn there are limits to what you're capable of.

Capricorn (Dec 23 - Jan 20) Few people are as practical and ambitious as you. Caution is your second name. You are sometimes shy and lack self-confidence and self-esteem.

Aquarius (Jan 21-Feb 19) You are forward thinking and self-directed. You're a born revolutionary and don't want to be like others and take pride in the fact that you're so unique.

Pisces (Feb 20 - March 20) You are a truly compassionate and loving person. You have a universal approach to the way you live and this is seen in most of your actions.

What's Your Rashee?

Whatz Ur Rashee...Part 1

Coming Soon

Whatz Ur Rashee (Top 10 Reasons)...

Aries
21 March-19 April


Taurus
20 April-20 May


Gemini
21May-21June

Cancer
22June-22July

Leo
23July-22August

Virgo
23August-22September


Libra
23September-22October


Scorpio
23October-21November


Sagittarius
22November-21December



Capricorn

22December-19January

Aquarius
20January-18February

Pisces
19February-20March



Friday, December 4, 2009

Chinese Zodaic

The Zodiac traditionally begins with the Rat, so here is the sequence starting with the rat and the corresponding years
1984 Rat
1985 Ox
1986 Tiger
1987 Rabbit

1988 Dragon
1989 Snake
1990 Horse
1991 Goat (Lamb)

1992 Monkey
1993 Rooster
1994 Dog
1995 Pig

E.g. I am born in the year of the rabbit. That's my starting point, 1987 to find the next rabbit year just add 12 or subtract 12 to find previous rabbit year.

To memorize the zodaic u can memorize this story.

I imagine a rat wanting to charge an ox, but instead hit the tiger who growled scaring all the bunnies (rabit) until the noise woke a grumpy dragon. The dragon coiled itself like a snake on a horses leg which neighed noisily and woke all the lambs and made them crazy, therefore they acted like a monkey, crowed like a rooster and eventually barked like a dog, until a large pig oinked at them to keep quiet. :3


RAT

Metal Rat
1900,1960
Water Rat
1912,1972
Wood Rat
1924,1984
Fire Rat
1936,1996
Earth Rat
1948,2008







OX

Metal Ox
1901,1961
Water Ox
1913,1973
Wood Ox
1925,1985
Fire Ox
1937,1997
Earth Ox
1949,2009







TIGER

Metal Tiger
1950,2010
Water Tiger
1902,1962
Wood Tiger
1914,1974
Fire Tiger
1926,1986
Earth Tiger
1938,1998







RABBIT

Metal Rabbit
1951,2011
Water Rabbit
1903,1963
Wood Rabbit
1915,1975
Fire Rabbit
1927,1987
Earth Rabbit
1939,1999







DRAGON

Metal Dragon
1940,2000
Water Dragon
1952,2012
Wood Dragon
1904,1964
Fire Dragon
1916,1976
Earth Dragon
1928,1988







SNAKE

Metal Snake
1941,2001
Water Snake
1953,2013
Wood Snake
1905,1965
Fire Snake
1917,1977
Earth Snake
1929,1989







HORSE

Metal Horse
1930,1990
Water Horse
1942,2002
Wood Horse
1954,2014
Fire Horse
1906,1966
Earth Horse
1918,1978







LAMB

Metal Lamb
1931,1991
Water Lamb
1943,2003
Wood Lamb
1955,2015
Fire Lamb
1907,1967
Earth Lamb
1919,1979







MONKEY

Metal Monkey
1920,1980
Water Monkey
1932,1992
Wood Monkey
1944,2004
Fire Monkey
1956,2016
Earth Monkey
1908,1968







ROOSTER

Metal Rooster
1921,1981
Water Rooster
1933,1993
Wood Rooster
1945,2005
Fire Rooster
1957,2017
Earth Rooster
1909,1969


DOG

Metal Dog
1910,1970
Water Dog
1922,1982
Wood Dog
1934,1994
Fire Dog
1946,2006
Earth Dog
1958,2018


PIG

Metal Pig
1911,1971
Water Pig
1923,1983
Wood Pig
1935,1995
Fire Pig
1947,2007
Earth Pig
1959,2019





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