Tuesday, September 25, 2012

Touching life story.... Bible Gift

A young man was getting ready to graduate college. For many months he had admired a beautiful sports car in a dealer's showroom, and knowing his father could well afford it, he told him that was all he wanted.

     As Graduation Day approached, the young man awaited signs that his father had purchased the car. Finally, on the morning of his graduation his father called him into his private study. His father told him how proud he was to have such a fine son, and told him how much he loved him. He handed his son a beautiful wrapped gift box.

     Curious, but somewhat disappointed the young man opened the box and found a lovely, leather-bound Bible. Angrily, he raised his voice at his father and said, "With all your money you give me a Bible?" and stormed out of the house, leaving the holy book.

     Many years passed and the young man was very successful in
business. He had a beautiful home and wonderful family, but realized his father was very old, and thought perhaps he should go to him. He had   not seen him since that graduation day. Before he could make arrangements, he received a telegram telling him his father had passed away, and willed all of his possessions to his son. He needed   to come home immediately and take
-care things. When he arrived at his father's house, sudden sadness and regret filled his heart.

    He began to search his father's important papers and saw the still new Bible, just as he had left it years ago. With tears, he opened the Bible and began to turn the pages. As he read those   words, a car key dropped from an envelope taped behind the Bible. It had a tag with the dealer's name, the same dealer who had the sports car he had desired. On the tag was the date of his graduation, and the words...PAID IN FULL.


How many times do we miss God's blessings because they are not packaged as we expected?

Tuesday, September 18, 2012

Change Your Thinking


It will take just 37 seconds to read this and change your thinking..




Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room.







One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs.



His bed was next to the room's only window.









The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back.









The men talked for hours on end.



They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation..









Every afternoon, when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window.









The man in the other bed began to live for those one hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and colour of the world outside.










The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake.



Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every colour and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance.










As the man by the window described all this in exquisite details, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine this picturesque scene.


One warm afternoon, the man by the window described a parade passing by.









Although the other man could not hear the band - he could see it in his mind's eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words.









Days, weeks and months passed.








One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep.


She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away.









As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone.






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Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the real world outside.
He strained to slowly turn to look out the window besides the bed.









It faced a blank wall.









The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this window.










The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall.








She said, 'Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you.'












Epilogue:









There is tremendous happiness in making others happy, despite our own situations.









Shared grief is half the sorrow, but happiness when shared, is doubled




If you want to feel rich, just count all the things you have that money can't buy.










'Today is a gift, that is why it is called The Present .'









The origin of this letter is unknown, but it brings good luck to everyone who passes it on.









Do not keep this letter.






I pray you will forward it to all your friends to whom you wish God's blessings.

Friday, September 14, 2012

What type of employee are you


Aries Employee Profile (march 21 - April 19)

Aries employees make excellent troubleshooters. They'll usually want to be out in the field at a variety of different work sites fixing things. They certainly won't be happy for very long behind a desk in a 9 to 5 schedule. The bored Aries employee who has been forced into a square hole will typically be restless, angry, and careless with details. No amount of money would compensate for being stuck in a routine job. Money in fact isn't why they are working at all. They do want to be paid fairly and need a status position to satisfy their competitive tendencies--but even more importantly, they'll want challenging new projects They typically like to have a sense of responsibility and need to feel needed. In return, they'll give their all and provide detailed, consistent work. They will literally work themselves to exhaustion to prove themselves. If you want to keep your Aries co- worker productive and happy, you'll want to give them the opportunity to work independently or let them help and lead less experienced workers.

Taurus Employee Profile (April 20 - may 20)


Taureans make some of the best employees. They are loyal, hardworking, and no-nonsense.
They work methodically and follow projects through until they are complete.
Some may appear to work a little too slowly-usually because they are so careful-but they will always finish what they start.
They thrive on structure, schedules, and routine. You'll find them doing the same exact thing at the same time every day.
Taureans, however, are not exactly the malleable workers that they often appear to be.
If they have to work in a chaotic environment, they won't be happy and will be prone to child-like temper tantrums and stubbornness. They might react similarly if they have to work around ignorant people or at a job where there is no obvious potential for advancement. Taureans will be very unhappy if there isn't a ladder for them to climb. Even in the worst situations, they will find a way to advance slowly, winning over the most difficult people who may stand in their way of progress. 

Taurus employees will only take so much patiently and happily before they feel they are being taken advantage of.
They will gladly accept orders and do whatever dirty work needs to get done, but they expect rewards.
They want material gain, salary increases, and the potential for more power.
To make your Taurus employees happy, be sure to give them projects through which they will see tangible results-
hopefully something that will allow them to express their unique creativity in addition to their practical side.
They don't want to feel mired in details for long periods of time. Make sure to schedule regular performance and salary reviews.
This show of respect should keep them loyal to the company.

Gemini Employee Profile (may 21 - June 21)


Gemini employees can have difficulty concentrating on one thing for long periods of time.

They have quick-moving minds and love to talk and communicate their ideas with others. They thrive on social interaction -- even if their jobs don't particularly support it. You'll be able to find them wandering from desk to desk gossiping about all the sordid news in the office. They can be powerful persuaders in their speech and make ideal salespeople and mediators. They love to negotiate and can work out the best Deal for everyone involved. When properly stimulated, they can manage to keep
>> their wandering mind focused and actually be quite productive. When they are bored, bogged down with mundane detail-work, or forced to work with people who they consider droll, they can become mean-spirited and gossipy. Their moods can fluctuate vastly day to day, as well as their productivity. It is really against their nature to be forced into an average workday schedule and environment. They are happier travelling. lf they are in an office they will need constant new stimulation. Most will be wanting advancement if they see this as a way to escape the limitations of their jobs. This can motivate them to put extra effort into their job. If you work with a Gemini, try to avoid getting into any debates with them they will surely win and it could end in some hard feelings on your part. They will need an accepting environment-one that supports their need for multi-tasking. 
  
Cancer Employee Profile (June 22 - July 21)

The Cancer employee isn't at work to feed their ego -- their job is just a job and a means to get paid.
They work steadily and are usually very reliable. You'll be able to depend on them to show up on time and do what is necessary.
They won't get involved in power struggles or get upset when someone advances before them.
They are able to accept the situation because they see it simply as a rung on the ladder up.
Their motivation is security. They'll want more money the longer they've stayed at a job.
They don't want to have to worry about how they'll make ends meet tomorrow so they'll need a stable position without much risk. Cancerian workers can slip into some dark moods on occasion. During these periods productivity tends to drop-as well as everyone else's in the office. Their moods can be so strong everyone becomes affected. To avoid the frequency of these occurrences,
managers and co-workers should try to make the work environment as homey as possible-keep it well heated, cozy, and friendly.
Don't press them to reveal their true inner thoughts-their tendency is to be secretive and protective,
and they could see prying as an attempt to disturb their security. 

  
Leo Employee Profile (July 22 - august 21)

Leo workers want to be first and at the center of the office.
Even if they can't lead, they'll look for every opportunity to increase their own status
and if someone else seems ahead of them, look out. They will make it clear that they aren't happy by pouting and complaining.
They want advancement so much that they'll take on more responsibility and carry a heavier load than anyone 
else does in the office. And they are self-promoters. It is likely that they are telling everyone in the office
what a great job they are doing as well as giving everyone unwanted advice.
They know they are superior and want everyone to know it as well.
This arrogance can sometimes cause problems when working with management.
But typically, they are just hard workers out to demonstrate just how good they really are.
They thrive in sales positions - they can promote a product or company just as well as they promote themselves.
Their strength and arrogance isn't just show either.
In a crisis situation, Leos really demonstrate their true courage.
Leos want to lead and will be pushing for more responsibility and rewards.
They are happy to train and mentor new co- workers as they enjoy giving advice and being in positions of authority.
If you are trying to manage a Leo employee, you'll need to give them plenty of praise, responsibility, and independence.
They will certainly want to help lighten your load of management responsibilities.
Just be careful- the next thing you know they could be taking over your job. 

  
  
Virgo Employee Profile (august 22 - September 22)

In the right situations Virgos love to work. They make ideal employees, happily working late into the night to make sure everything is perfect and in order. If you are looking for an employee who doesn't mind starting from rock bottom in the most entry-level position at the company, hire a Virgo. They'll have no complaints about the position being beneath them. They are CONTENT with basic, honest hard work. Their contentment isn't always apparent, however.. They love to complain and worry. They are quick to criticize the way things are done around the office and are the first ones to grumble disapprovingly at what they consider to be extravagance or laziness. They are blunt and honest and don't mince words over what they feel just isn't right. Usually, this will be brought on by someone doing 
a half-baked job or not being considerate of other co-work ers. You'll want to constantly reassure them, but this will do little to quell their
anxieties. They actually enjoy worrying, and there is little you can do about it. Just give them a detail - oriented project and let them work
alone on it. You won't have to supervise a Virgo worker. They'll check all the facts before getting started and catch their own errors when they are done. To keep a Virgo employee happy, you should also make sure their environment is orderly and calm. You should also provide small gestures of appreciation. They don't need extravagance, just let them know you appreciate them in small ways that won't embarrass them. They will probably just shrug their shoulders and say, "It's no big deal." But deep down inside they need these little reassurances. 

  
  
Libra Employee Profile (September 23 - October 22)

Libra employees are detailed, dedicated workers with sensitive natures. Managers and co-workers sometimes find them difficult to get a handle on. They pick up the energy of the office and are unable to prevent it from affecting them. Loud noise, flashy colors, and discordant vibrations will put them off so much that they will have difficulty fulfilling their obligations at work.

One day they may seem like the most bright, hardworking, ambitious employee around. The next day they might be down, irritated, and unable to produce. Co-workers shouldn't fret when Libra employees are in a dark mood. It really won't last, as a happy state of mind can come over them just as quickly. When Libra employees are in a balanced frame of mind, they can be a powerful presence at work-they have a way of gracing everything they touch. Underneath that mess of moods, they really are basically happy and stable people. They are capable of profound logical thought and evaluate all sides of a situation before acting. They are one of the most intelligent Signs around. They are expert researchers and mediators. And their sensitivity to their environment makes them naturals at keeping things looking great. They will easily help others resolve conflicts and can act as a go-between with workers and management so that everyone ends up happy. If you want to keep your Libran worker smiling, give them the respect they are due and put them in a position where they can project their great charm and diplomacy. They won't be CONTENT to take orders for very long, either- make sure they are given increased 
responsibility. 

  
  
Scorpio Employee Profile (October 23 - November 21) 

Scorpio employees usually exude a quiet self-confidence. They are self-sufficient and do not depend on others for a sense of self-worth. They keep their private life separate from work and take complete responsibility for their actions and their situation. They don't make excuses; they just take care of business and expect everyone else to do the same. Those who don't, co- workers and managers- will have to endure the Scorpio wrath. They don't mind being completely vocal about what they feel is wrong with any given situation. And if you tread on their fire be sure to expect retaliation. They won't take insults or opposition lying down. If you manage a Scorpio employee, be sure to follow through with your word and don't break any promises-Scorpio is keeping track and building up some heavy resentments
against you if you do. You may not even be aware of it until too late-but when Scorpio gets too m uch, you'll be sure to know. Scorpio
employees will react towards those around them exactly as they are treated. When they get what they want, they will be very accepting. If
you are trying to work with or motivate a Scorpio co-worker, be sure to treat them respectfully and act professionally. Give them challenging work that allows them to utilize their awesome self-confidence and courage. 

  
Sagittarius Employee Profile (November 22 - December 21)

The Sagittarian employee is head strong, cheerful, and willing to help. They exude self-confidence and take on tasks like there's no tomorrow. They are willing to tackle even the toughest of projects as long as it is challenging and gets them out of the routine. Lucky for them, their shining personalities and honest enthusiasm seem like a bright spot in the office- otherwise co-workers might begin to build animosity towards someone so arrogant and extravagant. Their tendency to exaggerate and take on more then they can handle usually results in missed deadlines and dropping the ball-not because they are lazy of procrastinate, but because their enthusiasm just gets the better of them sometimes. Don't let their nonchalance fool you-they really do care about what they are doing. They just have an easy-going attitude that allows them to keep on smiling even when they just messed up big time. Just because they are flexible and easy-going doesn't mean they won't tell you exactly how they feel-what is working for them and what isn't. And they won't just blindly take orders - they need to understand the method and reason behind the process. If you are trying to motivate your Sagittarian employee, be sure 
to feed them plenty of challenging new projects and hint that some business trips might be on the horizon once deadlines are met. And
whatever you do, try not to question their intentions - it is the quickest way to make them upset. They aren't capable of deceit. 

  
  
Capricorn Employee Profile (December 22 - January 20)

A Capricorn employee with too much to do is a happy worker. They need plenty of projects and responsibility. There is no sadder sight than a Capricorn worker without a sense of responsibility. They need to be needed. They are covertly ambitious - usually not flashy or obvious about it-but you will usually know that they are serious and determined about advancing themselves. They are completely scrupulous, so much so that they can be self-disparaging. But they are no pushovers. They can wear down even the toughest customers. Their persistence is incredible. Once they set their sights on a goal, they work away at it until the bitter end-whether the goal be that hard sell or the new hardware release. Capricorns don't work for free, however. They expect to be paid handsomely and be given more and more responsibility. They need to come out ahead of the pack in the end, and they see the work environment as their primary vehicle. They won't go in for the typical office gossip and politics, though. They want to get down to business at work and see it as no place for fooling around. With a strong sense of duty and respect towards their superiors, it is rare they will join in on boss-bashing or knocking the system. They can get frustrated, however, with blue sky management schemes that lack common sense, and they will interject their dry sense of humor in the most critical ways. If they want change, they will be unyielding. If all their effort leads to naught the result will be deep moods of darkness and depression with a sense of hopelessness. Keep your Capricorn employee happy by paying them fairly and giving them plenty of hard work. Arrange for a path of advancement within your organization for them. If you don't, you might find them looking for other opportunities. 

  
  
Aquarius Employee Profile (January 21 - February 19)

The Aquarius employee can't tolerate unfairness in the office. Hair brained schemes will get the positive attention they deserve if an Aquarian has anything to do with it. They'll try to help everyone see the good side of a bad situation if it's the last thing that they do. They are so smart-they can't help but hold management in disdain if they feel that they are being unfair and unintelligent. It isn't that they are overly ambitious and think they could be doing a better job- just that they think people in power should know better.

Most Aquarius workers are still looking for themselves and will want to try their hand at a variety of jobs in the workplace.

Whatever they are doing, they will do conscientiously. They usually have strict personal codes that include a strong work ethic.
Their bright, off-beat intelligence, and trustwothiness will typically gain them many friends-in and out of work.

Beneath that sometimes odd-ball behavior is solid, concrete thinking and sensitivity to co-workers.

Keep your smart Aquarius co-worker happy by giving them plenty of opportunity to learn news kills.

Raises are less important to them. No amount of money will make it worth their while to stay in a stagnant position.
Don't let them get too bored or they will simply find another job as easily as they found this one-their genius is easy to spot. 

  
  
Pisces Employee Profile (February 20 - march 20)

The Pisces employee can be a loyal and hard-working, if unconventional, worker. In the right position, they are able to keep their daydreams in check and buckle down on the detail work-giving their all to the boss and corporation whom they feel are worthy of devotion. On the flip side, there is no image of extreme misery like that of an ill-placed Pisces worker. They will act as though their cubicle were a prison cell as they daydream of their own business or next vacation. Unhappy Pisces workers usually won't stick 
around too long. Often Pisceans will drift from one job to another looking for that ideal environment to which they will be able to commit
and feel a sense of purpose. And if things are going in a bad direction at the office, Pisces will be the first to sense it.

They'd rather pick up and leave then wait until the problem reaches a head. Pisces are often misunderstood by their co-workers. Typically timid and introspective, they usually keep their true nature hidden, for fear it wouldn't fit with the corporate culture.

What motivates a Pisces employee to not only stick around but also excel? Try compliments. And show them how their work impacts the entire organization. They need to know that what they are doing is worth something on a grander scale. Acceptance of their unconventional organization and planning will be necessary. Just because their sales report isn't in the typical format doesn't mean it is any
less effective. Keep their environment bright and upbeat; and an after-work cocktail wouldn't hurt .

Response Vs Reaction

At a restaurant, a cockroach suddenly flew from somewhere and sat on a lady. She started screaming out of fear. With a panic stricken face and trembling voice, she started jumping, with both her hands desperately trying to get rid of the cockroach. Her reaction was contagious, as everyone in her group also got panicky.
The lady finally managed to push the cockroach away but ...it landed on another lady in the group. Now, it was the turn of the other lady in the group to continue the drama.
The waiter rushed forward to their rescue. In the relay of throwing, the cockroach next fell upon the waiter. 


The waiter stood firm, composed himself and observed the behavior of the cockroach on his shirt. When he was confident enough, he grabbed it with his fingers and threw it out of the restaurant.
Sipping my coffee and watching the amusement, the antenna of my mind picked up a few thoughts and started wondering, was the cockroach responsible for their histrionic behavior? If so, then why was the waiter not disturbed? He handled it near to perfection, without any chaos.
It is not the cockroach, but the inability of the ladies to handle the disturbance caused by the cockroach that disturbed the ladies. 


I realized that, it is not the shouting of my father or my boss or my wife that disturbs me, but its my inability to handle the disturbances caused by their shouting that disturbs me. 

Its not the traffic jams on the road that disturbs me, but my inability to handle the disturbance caused by the traffic jam that disturbs me. 

More than the problem, it’s my reaction to the problem that creates chaos in my life.


Lessons learnt from the story:
I understood, I should not react in life.
I should always respond. The women reacted, whereas the waiter responded.
Reactions are always instinctive whereas responses are always well thought of, just and right to save a situation from going out of hands, to avoid cracks in relationship, to avoid taking decisions in anger, anxiety, stress or hurry.

Wednesday, September 12, 2012

Forgot to mention subject in mail?


Hi,

Hope, many might have experienced this problem.

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Forgot to mention subject in mail?
 
Forgot to mention subject while writing an Official Mail and repent later?
Yes. It's a concern for all. A mail without a subject brings a bad impression on us.
To avoid this, just follow the simple steps mentioned below and see the result.
Here are the steps: -
1. Open your Outlook
2. Press Alt+F11. This opens the Visual Basic Editor and then Press Ctrl+R which in turn open Project-Project 1 (left side)
3. On the Left Pane, one can see "Microsoft Outlook Objects" or "Project1", expand this. Now one can see the "ThisOutLookSession".
4. Double click on "ThisOutLookSession". It will open up a Code Pane on the right hand side.
5. Copy and Paste the following code in the right pane (Code Pane) and save it
Private Sub Application_ItemSend(ByVal Item As Object, Cancel As Boolean)
Dim strSubject As String
strSubject = Item.Subject
   If Len(Trim(strSubject)) = 0 Then
       Prompt$ = "Subject is empty. Do you want to continue ?"
              If MsgBox(Prompt$, vbYesNo + vbQuestion + vbMsgBoxSetForeground, "Check for Subject") = vbNo Then
                 Cancel = True
              End If
   End If
End Sub    
*Now whenever you try to send a mail without subject, a pop-up is raised to remind you of the blank subject.

A Story about Onsite... Every Software Engineer should read this




Every Software Engineer should read this.


 A Story about Onsite...!
One fine day, Vivek's PL Bhatia asks him whether he has any time for a small meeting. Vivek obviously has time and so the two go to a conference


room. Bhatia then clears his throat and says "Vivek, there is an on-site


requirement. It is in Covina , Los Angeles . It is for six months. I can


suggest your name. Do you have any problems?"




Vivek cannot believe his ears. Of course why should any one have problems


going to the Sam land. "Of course no Bhatia.. I have no


problems." he says.




Bhatia looks at him very kindly and says "You better draw up your personal


plans with your wife and let me know in a day or two" That's when Vivek


remembers that he has a wife. Then it strikes him that there is a himalayan


problem in front of him. Shobana is working in Wipro. She is in


the middle of a project in which she is a moduleleader. She cannot leave it


all and come to Covina with Vivek. On the otherhand it will be cruel on


Vivek's part to leave her here and go to Covina for more than half a year. Moreover,


they have just been married. Vivek can stay back. But one day he has to go..




He cannot stay back in India indefinitely. Project requirements are too


demanding. Shobana can resign Wipro and accompany Vivek. But what is the


guarantee that she would find such a nice job in such a nice company after they come




back from Covina ? So Shobana and Vivek discuss this issue. They reluctantly agree to get separated for six months.




Vivek hugs Shobana in the airport and says "I will be BACK" in a typical


Arnold Scharzegger tone and then boards Delta Airways leaving Shobana in


tears. In Covina Vivek gets lots of work and his stay gets extended by  two


more months. The days and months move very slowly. Vivek starts counting


even minutes.






During this period, Shobana's PL Ashish Mehta calls her one day and asks


her whether she has any time for a small meeting. Shobana wonders what


that meeting is.. They go to the conference room and Mehta tells her


about a great on-site requirement in Berlin , Germany for their customer.


"It is for six months and you are most suited person for this. I am


going to suggest your name. Do you have any problems?" Mehta asks her.


Shobana gets excited.. Berlin ! She has never been out of India . So she


instantly nods her head. Mehta then smiles and says "Okay discuss with


your hubby and let me know in a day or two"






That's when Shobana gets the gravity of the situation. It will be two


months before Vivek can come home..... By the time Shobana will have left to


Berlinfor six months. Shobana cannot decline this as this is an


important assignment. That night Vivek spends hundred dollars on


telephone to discuss this matter with Shobana. Finally they decide to go


ahead. Shobana breaks down in the phone and Vivek breaks down thinking


about his phone bill. And then Shobana leaves to Berlin .




One month after that,Vivek comes back to India . Then Shobana calls him


almost everyday and they discuss about all petty things on the phone.


Shobana applies for a loan to clear her telephone bills. Vivek gets into


a new project which is not yet started. His PL Prateek Ray calls him one


day and says that he has to go to Toledo Ohio for the requirement analysis


of that project. Vivek frantically says no. Shobana is arriving next month. He doesn't want to miss her. But Ray assures him that the work is only for one month and


that he would be back before Shobana comes to India . Thus Vivek flies to


Toledo Ohio and gets into the requirement analysis of the new project.


That's when he comes to know how difficult it is to retrieve information


from the users. You can design a system the user wants only when the


user knows what he wants. Vivek gets baffled by the questions his users


put..




"Do you think I need those fields "GMG_TYPE_HJHJ_TW" and


"Auto_level_ind"?What are they by the way?" The requirements analysis


stage continues for three full months at this pace. Shobana comes to India one


month after that. And she tells her PL that she doesn't want anymore


on-site assignments. "I understand" says Mehta and she desperately waits for Vivek to come back to India . It has already been two months over a year


since they last met. Vivek then gets the role of an on-site co-ordinator


for this customer. He calls Shobana that night and they really don't


know what to do. Shobana offers to resign her job and join him in Toledo . But


she is getting 21 grand per month in Indiaand Vivek doesn't want to lose


that. "Two more months Shobana and I promise I will be back" Shobana


retorts back, "There is no solution for this problem." Vivek gets


surprised. "What are you talking about?" he asks her. Shobana fights back her tears. "As long as I am in Wipro I will be getting a lot of on-site opportunities. Even if I


decline all of them, what about you? You also work for a software


company and there you need to go abroad almost once every quarter.






I cannot accompany you as you don't want me to resign my job here. Does


that mean we have to stay like this forever? Vivek! I love you and I


don't know how I spent fifteen months without even seeing you once. I


may not recognize you also if you come in front of me now... Tell me Vivek,


is there a solution for this problem?" Vivek doesn't speak anything for a


moment. He then realizes the truth in her sentences. It is a neverending


problem.


But what about the 20 grand she is getting per month?


"Vivek, is money everything? Can't we comfortably live with what you are


getting? Please Vivek, try to understand the situation" Shobana breaks


down. Vivek is still undecided. He married a software engineer with a


hope that with two incomes he would have a good deal of money to plan their


future."Let us face the reality, Vivek" Shobana says, "How much are you


paying for the phone calls now? More than 20 grand per month.




If I am with you there will your phone bill be so astronomical? Just


tell me one thing. Won't you be happy having me there with you?" Shobana


slowly turns hysterical. Vivek gets into the crux of the situation. It is true.


He has been spending around 600 to 700 dollars per month on India calls...


that is far more than what Shobana is getting then. He thinks and


thinks..for two days he does nothing else but thinking. Finally he decides that


he should have Shobana with him all the time from then onwards at any cost.


Shobana gladly prepares the resignation letter and submits it. Her PL


smiles and says "You've made the right decision Shobana..


 congratulations  for the bold step. I understand your problems. Anyway! you have a three


months notice period here, right? We have a one month assignment in


Singapore ....."

MORAL : No software professional should marry another software professional.... unless one of them is ready to resign.